On the path of Tantra, Yoga and other spiritual practices, there are several alluring paths to personal growth and self-realization. However, there's a delicate balance that needs to be addressed – the balance of power. While we must respect our teachers for their wisdom and guidance, it is essential to remember that they are not infallible. They are not our gurus or spiritual masters, but our guides, providing the tools for us to navigate our own journey.

The Perils of Power Dynamics

In any sphere of life, the existence of power dynamics can lead to a host of issues, and the spiritual realm is no exception. We often see a hierarchy established, where the teacher stands as an authority figure, creating a power differential that can lead to a form of spiritual codependency.

This dynamic can subtly enforce a belief that our teachers possess an absolute truth, which can lead to an unhealthy reliance on them for spiritual growth and in some cases can foster a culture of spiritual bypassing. The truth is, each of us has a unique spiritual path, one that we must tread individually, using our intuition, personal experiences, and inner wisdom.

The Responsibility to Think for Yourself

As students of Tantra, it is our responsibility to think independently and critically. As much as we learn from our teachers, we must also question, debate, and ponder. Our yoga practice is a journey of self-discovery, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach.

Each person's connection to the divine is distinct, and thus, we cannot surrender our spiritual sovereignty to someone else's interpretation or understanding. We must learn to filter the teachings and advice we receive, accepting what resonates with us and our unique experiences.

The Pitfalls of Co-Dependency

Co-dependency in a spiritual context, where students become overly reliant on their teachers, can hinder personal growth. Instead of cultivating self-awareness, autonomy, and personal power, students can lose themselves in a desire for approval or validation from their teachers. Many people come to yoga already stuck in a loop of needing external validation (even yoga teachers :D ) and this power differential can exploit this pattern in seekers looking to break free from this bondage.

Often this is either the intentional or unintentional result of yoga as an industry, creating codependency can lead to students coming back for guidance again and again, resulting in repeat sales and bigger revenue streams for teachers, schools and studios.

It is essential to remember that the yoga studio or school is a space for learning and growth, not a place for unquestioning obedience. A teacher is there to guide and support, not to dictate or dominate. The power within a yoga studio should not reside solely with the teacher but should be equally distributed among all participants. The essence of Vira Bhava lies in the understanding that we are all equal in our pursuit of enlightenment, each following our unique path.

Your Yoga Practice, Your Journey

Your yoga journey is exactly that - YOUR journey. Your practice should be guided by your personal intuition, comfort, and self-knowledge. In asana, respect your body, listen to its needs, and don’t push beyond your limits. Remember that everyone’s yoga journey is different, and comparison only hinders your growth.

Let's rethink the power structures that exist in our spiritual practices and yoga studios. Let's work towards an egalitarian space, where each person's voice and experiences are valued, where teachers serve as guides rather than masters, and where every individual is empowered on their unique path towards inner wisdom.

As yoga leaders, we are uniquely positioned to initiate change and reshape the culture of hierarchy in yoga. We bear the responsibility of creating a safe, inclusive, and empowering space for our students. Here are a few steps we can take to facilitate this transformation:

1. Foster a Culture of Openness and Respect: It is essential to cultivate an environment where questions, discussions, and even respectful disagreements are welcomed. This encourages students to think independently and critically, fostering their spiritual growth.

2. Encourage Self-Awareness and Personal Responsibility: Inspire your students to listen to their own bodies and intuition. Empower them to make their own decisions about what feels right for them, both on and off the mat. The role of the yoga teacher is to guide, not to dictate.

3. Be Mindful of Language: The language we use as yoga leaders can profoundly influence the culture of our yoga studios. Avoid language that asserts authority or superiority. Instead, use language that empowers, supports, and encourages.

4. Address Power Dynamics Explicitly: Let's not shy away from discussing power dynamics in our classes. By bringing the conversation into the open, we can address it directly, ensuring everyone understands the equal value of their voice and presence in the studio.

5. Maintain Continuous Learning and Humility: Even as leaders, our learning journey never ends. Let's demonstrate to our students that we are also students, eager to learn and grow. This can help dismantle the traditional teacher-student hierarchy and foster a sense of equality.

6. Advocate for Equality: As leaders, let’s take a stand for equality in our studios, in our communities, and in the broader world of yoga. Use your platform to advocate for a more egalitarian yoga culture.

Together, we can shift the culture from hierarchy to equality, from power dynamics to mutual respect, and from spiritual codependency to personal empowerment. Let’s remember that at its core, the practice of Tantra Yoga is about recognizing and honoring the divine within each one of us. And every divine journey is unique, and every divine journey is to be respected.